Parents, the advice I am providing here may sound inane and farfetched. Nonetheless, take it into deep consideration, because it is bound to have a profound effect on your parenting perspective: trust your teens. Last night, I went to a party with several of my friends. And, in accordance with popular belief, the event consisted of drinks and the like. I myself have never taken part in this scene; after all, is a person’s only means of enjoyment indulging in intoxicated drinks? Of course not!! Personally, I think drinking is stupid, physically detrimental, and an insidious notion that is too often embraced in the teenage years. It comes as no surprise, then, that at these parties, I am merely a bystander, still having fun in the company of others who also do not care for making fools of themselves. Yet, as I’ve attended many of these parties, I’ve come to a very comforting conclusion: more and more teenagers are coming to advocate the same beliefs that I do; that is, getting intoxicated is idiotic.
I first had this epiphany at a party on New Year’s. New Year’s is the hallmark of all partying, a time when parents worry most that their teens are making foolish decisions. At the party that I was at, an older teen approached a group of girls, asking them what they wanted to drink. They all looked at each other, and then replied that they did not want anything. He hastily went on to pressure them, nearly insisting that they drink something. Yet, steadfastly refusing, they quickly walked away. At that moment, I wanted to applaud these girls for adhering to their principles, for defying the common image of teenage years. And, I’ve come to witness (and personally experience) these same situations more and more.
Parents, it is important to realize that many teens ARE making responsible decisions, and many are NOT making the foolish decisions that have been so wrongfully assumed. Perhaps, such anti-drug programs as DARE and television programs denouncing partying have had this positive effect on teens. Or, perhaps peers are instilling these beneficial concepts in their friends’ minds. Or, perhaps, dare I say, parent admonishing against drinking is finally being taken to heart?
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